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Successful Manifestation

It’s clear that if you are attempting to co-create anything in the world, or to explore the principles of manifestation, as expounded by Napoleon Hill in “Think & Grow Rich” , there are three important parameters that ought to be brought into the equation.

Perhaps the most vital is total commitment to the law of attraction. In popular language we name it firmness of purpose. This quality is a key component when you are trying to manifest anything since it clearly shows your absolute confidence in your ability to move towards your adopted outcome.

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A basic truth is this: wholehearted commitment is a clear reminder to your mind and brain that you are resolute about achieving your goal, no matter what the problems may be.

And if the Oneness (another word for God) appreciates that you are sure of your aims, your spiritual connection starts to show you possibilities of how life can be – and so propel you towards your goals more simply and efficiently than you could ever imagine.

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Think and Grow Rich
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You can understand that the part of your mind responsible for manifesting physical reality needs to have something that you could call an operating system or program in the same way as a PC; your primal manifestation power depends more or less totally on a appropriate set of operating instructions.

In manifestation, your program is always your wished-for goal. If you don’t have a clear goal, which the law of attraction can use to help you get what you want, nothing very impressive will can be expected to change – either now or in the future.

And what next? Well, experts agree you need closely held and passionate desire when you are attracting reality! This means you must feel into yourself and find a highly significant improvement in money, relationship, circumstances.

I always emphasize the essential nature of strongly held hope for what you want most in life. For sure, if you wish to manifest your reality, desire is the catalyst behind our ability to manifest. 

The mechanism by which this extremely powerful force which we call the law of attraction can create hard physical reality is as yet unexplained. Essentially, why should we seek to know what is unknown?

But most men and women expect more answers. Surely our hope lies here. That matter and energy are the same. Many of our finest minds concur – our mental energy can indirectly impact the evolution of material things.

Perhaps your reaction to this is, “it’s impossible!” I say, good for the skeptics – as long as they keep an open mind. When you see such strange claims, lack of clarity understandable as a mental attitude. Even so, we damage ourselves when we strive to reduce the likelihood of the human ability around manifestation, conscious creation, and the Laws that govern creation and conscious manifestations.

Despite the critics, the doubters, and the cynics, the more spiritual aspects of human existence – manifestation and creation – are widely accepted as natural human gifts by scientists and lay people alike.

Even though many people have tried to ridicule manifestation, most balanced people truly believe in our capacity to run our own lives truly and effectively. The next necessary element of getting what you want is expectancy.

It’s a kind of belief, but there is a subtle but important difference of meaning. This may illustrate it: you think that you might win any lottery where you have an entry ticket, but you – I would guess – don’t expect to win big, even though you are certain that some happy recipient wins a major prize every drawing.

After all, you you need to be open to receive the whatever the universe offers to you. The Great Mystery is not unpredictable and isn’t going to produce anything unless the preconditions that apply to the Laws of Attraction are matched.

In fact, issues with manifestation not working arise when a person is “operating” from a long standing and limiting mindset which may well prevent them from employing the principles of the Law of Attraction as a key part of our existence. Such challenges become instantly clear when you think of a fairly common want: to get great riches.

A lot of individuals begin with the goal of manifesting financial riches. After months picturing their bank packed with assets, they stop trying because it hasn’t worked. There’s a quite simple trick which anyone can do to examine the solidity of your belief.

What if, you desired to attain enough money to retire on? Whether you think this is a genuine possibility depends on many variables. For many people, the difficult issue is how this might occur.

By detaching from the desired outcome, you can perhaps understand that while the “hows” can be a powerful dilemma in manifestation, should you move past that mindset, it’s simple to acquire this level of wealth without even currently being able to imagine or understand how it is to be attained.

Ways To Create Objectives

Since the television broadcast of The Secret, authored by Rhonda Byrne, in 2006, there has been a useful amount of constructive discussion around manifestation.

Unsurprisingly men and women are keen to find out how they could get behind the wheel of their existence for the better. Or how they can have a more promising existence around them. Or how they really can produce – that is to say, bring into being – the people and situations that they crave.

But the fact is obtaining what you need is more problematic than it might look on your first attempt. That is not to definitely say that it’s super hard to employ the Law Of Creation, but it does necessitate you to really understand the right skills.


Lots of men apparently believe that should they come up with a suitable goal and envision it with energy and effort every morning for 20 minutes they are going to be fulfilled by it mysteriously appearing in their world.

This is a simplistic strategy doomed to fail, because they’re not displaying the emotional energy and intensity which actually causes the Law of Attraction to work in their own favor.

Now, before we move any further into what this is all about it is worth clearly pointing out that manifestation is simply the universe creating in your physical reality the things that you expect with complete acceptance and expectancy. 

The Law of Manifestation, which is also called the Law of Attraction, is the divine programming by which this happens.

How To Get The Sexual Relationship You Wish For

Some years ago Rhonda Byrne published a book called The Secret – although it actually came out as a film first, the book sold millions of copies, and led loads of people to investigate the Law of Attraction.

Law of Attraction is something that’s fascinated people for generations, if not millennia: this is because we all have a desire to make life easy for ourselves, and getting what we want by visualizing it in the mind might seem to be the easiest way of all!

Well, I have some news for you – the law of attraction does actually work, and is a legitimate way of changing your life for the better, but it isn’t as easy to apply as people have thought, or been led to believe by people like Rhonda Byrne.

The truth here is that, to start with, getting what you want through the law of attraction, whether it be greater prosperity, financial wealth, or a better relationship (or indeed any relationship at all) depends on you being spiritually evolved enough to be able to utilize the concepts and principles behind the law of attraction.

Concepts Behind the Law of Attraction

Well the truth is that first of all they require you to be able to move into a meditative space, which is defined by the alpha wave brain rhythm. If you are an experienced meditator, and good at relaxing, you can probably do this anyway, see you’re well ahead of the game here!

Secondly, they require you to be able to visualize your desired objective in intense detail. Now many people say they can visualise, but there are an equal member who claim that they cannot. But if I ask you to think of a lemon, some image or a picture or sensation comes into your mind – that’s visualization.

So assuming that you, like the rest of us can visualize, the fact that so many people say they can’t is probably more to do with the fact that they have difficulty motivating themselves. Why should that be?

Let’s assume that you want to manifest a better relationship, and you have several conflicting notions of what that relationship might look like.

How to manifest a great relationship
Manifestation is a process you can control.

The truth is most people do not formulate clear objectives and ideals – they don’t generally know what the clearest form of their desired objective is. That’s why most people who say they can’t visualize, at least in my opinion, don’t have enough motivation to use the Law of attraction successfully.

What I mean to say is, they can’t maintain focus on any particular objective for long enough to make it intensely desirable – when it is more likely to come into their lives.

To make this clearer, consider this: when you are trying to visualize a better relationship,  or indeed any new relationship, greater prosperity, or any other objective you want to bring into your life, you need to have an absolutely clear vision of what you’re trying to achieve.

If you think of this in terms of getting where you want to go, you can see immediately that you wouldn’t set out on the road for any journey without some kind of map or satellite navigation programmed with your destination.

It’s exactly the same when you’re trying to visualize an objective and bring it to reality through manifestation by the law of attraction.

You need a very clear image of what you want, an image that is going to be sufficiently emotionally engaging for you to genuinely set out with high enough commitment to motivate you to work on it on a daily basis.

Now I know this may sound quite daunting, but you don’t get something for nothing: in a sense, the reward of being able to manifest what you want through the universal processes like manifestation is so great that there has to be a “payment” made by you.

In this case of course the payment is not financial! Rather, it’s about motivation, commitment, time for visualization and – perhaps the limiting factor for many many people – commitment to yourself.

You see, in the end, this is about your commitment to changing your life for the better, this is about your commitment to getting what you want, and indeed this is actually fundamentally about your sense of self-worth!

Do you feel worthwhile enough to believe you can have a good relationship, or will you continue to settle for nothing at all or a poor-quality relationship which is far below that which you actually deserve?

Well, it’s your decision in every way. The truth is there are plenty of websites around which will show you exactly how to use the law of attraction to get what you want, be it financial prosperity or a great relationship, or indeed anything else.

There is one which I particularly like called, which sets out to give you every piece of information you could possibly need about manifestation and the law of attraction, and really you don’t need any other resource than this, in my opinion.

So if you want to actually work on the process of manifestation yourself, find out all about it, get to the real truth behind books like The Secret, and find out what it was actually trying to tell you, in a way that’s simple and easy to understand, you should go to an expert who’s actually used the Law of Attraction over many years of his or her life.

As opposed, that is,  to finding somebody seeking to make a great deal of money out of writing about this, without perhaps the personal experience of manifestation and the law of attraction in everyday life, where using it made a real difference to their well-being.

Of course it’s possible for people to make a great deal of money by coming up with a popular book or film which purports to explain the principles of manifestation, but the truth is that there is no substitute for the reality of experience.

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Sexual happiness can be manifested just as easily as any other kind of abundance!

There is no substitute for actually having used manifestation in your life on a day-to-day basis for many years to understand how it works.

This allows one to convey the mechanism behind it to other people who might want to also use it to improve the quality of their life for the better.

And remember, there’s nothing mysterious about visualization and manifestation, because it’s actually an ability that is granted to us by virtue of our humanity; it is a fundamental part of the human condition.

Law Of Attraction & A Better Sexual Relationship

Human ingenuity being what it is, you will no doubt be unsurprised to learn that even the processes of manifestation and the Law of Attraction have been considered as ways to get a better sexual relationship.

Yet when you think about it this is no surprise!

The truth of the matter is that manifestation is a process of visualization, essentially, by which people can choose their objectives, form a clear image of them in their minds, and then set about taking some kind of action which will bring them into reality in the physical world.

How to manifest a great relationship
Manifestation is a process you can control.

To the extent that the process of manifesting material goods or prosperity is dependent on visualization, so is the process of manifesting a different psychological or emotional state, such as happiness, gratitude. And so, for that matter, is a “psycho-emotional” state such as enjoying better sex, relaxing into the sexual experience, and enjoying your orgasms more than ever before.

I think the point here is that basically any human behaviour can be adapted or changed by addressing the behavior and psychological issues that lie behind it.

But there’s an interesting twist here, because although manifestation and the Law of Attraction do depend on visualization – as well, of course, as taking action in the world (see below for more on that!) – the very process of getting sexually aroused can in itself be one way of making manifestation happen more easily and quickly.

What a perplexing paradox!

Look at this video:

Another video by the same author.

When you watch the video above you’ll realize that sexual energy can be both the product – as in the sense that you are trying to create a sexual relationship or improve an existing sexual relationship – or a tool in the actual act of manifesting reality.

It’s a fascinating and very compelling subject, and I highly recommend that you explore it much more detail.

When all is said and done,  sexual energy – which, in my opinion, at its root means basically love, is one of the most profound and powerful energies available to the human being (which means you and me) in any form, shape, attribute or experience.

So if you’re trying to attract reality, if you’re trying to appeal to the universe to give you what you want – a process which wiser and older cultures may well have called prayer – or if you’re trying to get what you want through any form of manifestation, it may well be worth you adapting your sexual practices so that you can direct your sexual energy towards that particular outcome.

For those of us who are not sexual adepts, or who don’t want to take this view, the restraint of ejaculation (which is the general way in which sexual energy is accumulated for practices such as manifestation) is an unhealthy distraction from sexual enjoyment.

Not only that, but it is not, perhaps, very pleasing in bed, as a sexual experience! So where is the emotional fuel of manifestation going to come from?

The answer to that is that it comes from certain levels of activity in the mind, inevitably, and they represent emotional aspects of your unconscious reality.

So, for example, you may be asked by a tutor in manifestation to visualize a certain outcome, and as you do so, to imagine how it would feel to have that outcome. Obviously this is generally about gratitude, happiness, joy, expectation and other positive feelings that come with getting what you want.

(What’s generally less well appreciated is that any strong emotion can be the fuel for manifestation, including anger and rage, sadness, fear and other powerful emotions of this negative kind – although there are certain good reasons for not generally using them to manifest reality.)

The truth is that if you’re sufficiently excited about getting what you’re trying to attain through manifestation, then you may well not have any need of using negative emotions, because you can always rely on things like positivity, happiness and joy to get you what you want.

Those are powerful emotions and they will power projection out into the universe of the reality that you’re trying to create, or rather, the picture of it that you’ve summed up in your mind as the first step of your visualization.

While we’re on the subject of manifestation brought about by using the law of attraction, I’d just like to add the point that action is always necessary.

It probably won’t surprise you to learn, having lived amongst people on the face of this planet for many years, and having no doubt observed the tendencies that we all exemplify to some degree, that a lot of people imagine that if they sit on their asses on the couch all day visualizing a certain outcome, it will magically manifest for them.

Bizarrely, there is actually some truth in this – however, it’s not a generally recommended process for manifestation! What generally works better is to get out into the world, and take some action, to bring about change by making some difference to your physical reality – a change which demonstrates to the universe that you’re serious about getting what you want.

If you want to know more about the process of manifestation or the Law of Attraction there are plenty of websites which can help you get the  information and techniques you need.

Can You Really Expect To Get What You Want In A Relationship?

A lot of people settle for a relationship that is less good than they really hope to achieve.

And of course one reason for this must be the fact that their self-esteem is not high enough to allow the expectations of pleasure and gratification that a relationship of the highest quality could give them.

But another reason is more interesting, perhaps more important when it comes to the formation of human romantic relationships: simply that people don’t expect to meet somebody who is suitable for them.

Now if you’ve studied any kind of manifestation program like The Secret, you will know that there’s been plenty written on the Internet in recent years about how to get what you want by using the power of your mind: generally through visualization and imagination and goalsetting.

Now having said all of that, there has been a lot of scornful criticism of things like The Secret, generally from people who are skeptics because they tried the systems in question and they have managed to make them work.

And in fact that’s not actually too surprising because manifestation and using the Law Of Attraction to get what you want in life, whether it’s how to be successful, how to be financially wealthy, how to be in an ideal relationship, is actually quite difficult.

Now I would be one of the first people to defend the process manifestation because I used it many years ago to get into a wonderful romantic relationship is now in its 14th year.

My visualization consisted of imagining a blonde woman, attractive, loving, and sexually exciting, and behaving as though I was already in relationship – which basically means in practical terms, having a very strong and powerful belief that actually I already had a partner: she just hadn’t manifested on the physical plane yet!

Later that year, after spending three months visualizing this fervently every afternoon – and believe me, it really was my heart’s desire – I went on holiday to a Greek island, where I met on the first morning of my holiday a woman who was wearing exactly the same crystal on a necklace around her neck as I had imagined in my visualization.

Not only that, but she was actually also the spitting image of the woman who had come to me in a vision during one of my meditations.

The reason I think this worked very well for me was because my desire was intense, my belief was total, and my expectation – above all, my expectation – was absolute.

Usually when people talk about manifestation, they talk about a formula which goes something like intense desire plus complete belief plus total expectation leads to manifestation. And I agree with that – I’ve experienced it enough times in my own life to know that it’s true… But there is one thing missing the people generally forget.

And that is action: to take action in the world is the key element in many ways of any manifestation: to take action demonstrates to the universe that you’re ready to commit yourself to a pathway which will hopefully end in you getting what you want.

The actions don’t even have to be bigger actions – they simply have to be some demonstration to the universe of your commitment to the course that you have outlined for yourself.

If you like, this is a form of prayer; although I prefer to tend to think of it as a way of letting the universe know what I want, and asking for it to be provided to me. You’ll recall that the Bible says something similar about the man or woman who believes absolutely shall get what they pray for. Well, the Bible didn’t mention action, but it certainly should have done… Without action there can be no manifestation.

Another thing that people don’t understand is that the universe sometimes gives them something different to what they were visualizing. Here too, I can tell you that I’ve experienced this effect, and it’s unnerved in unsettled me, because I’ve often found that what I’ve got may look like what I want, but turned out to be something so different in the long run that it’s hard to understand why it ever came my way.

How to use the Law Of Attraction to get a great relationship.
How to use the Law Of Attraction to get a great relationship.

I think the answer to this is that the universe can sometimes take the opportunity to teach you something that you desperately need to know the sake of your own self-development – in other words, the universe does have some discernment in providing what you ask for, or something different that will give you the essence of a different pathway, a true pathway that really will take you to your heartfelt goal.

None of these concepts are simple of course, because if they were we would be manifesting left right and centre, there would be no poverty in a world plenty, we’d all be in relationships with ample money and financial wealth to enjoy plenty of our abundant leisure time!

So it’s useful to look at a website which explains all of these ideas in more detail, and I found one that I think is both modern and up-to-date, while retaining the values of the writers about manifestation from decades or even centuries ago, who first expounded the principles of getting what you want.

You can click here to read about how to manifest your desires, and I hope that that brings you the relationship you truly wish for, with happiness, fulfillment and plenty of abundant love.

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